Sexaholics Anonymous San Diego

Site last updated 5/23/18.


Notices


Sexaholics Anonymous
Statement of Principle

Hope & help for family &
friends of sexaholics:
S-Anon & S-Ateen San Diego


Meeting Attire Guidelines


Women's Meeting:

Teleconference/phone
or electronic format.
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Regional Information & SA Meetings:

San Diego Area
Fresno Area
Inland Empire/Coachella Valley
Sacramento Area

San Francisco Area
Southern California Area


San Diego Intergroup
monthly business meeting


Bylaws of SA San Diego Intergroup

(Final Revision Oct 15, 2013)


SA Service Manual

Current version
(3rd edition 2018)

Events

SA/S-Anon International Conventions

"Gateway to a New Freedom"


July 13-15, 2018
St. Louis, MO


New!

28th Annual SoCal SA / S-Anon / S-Ateen
Unity Conference

"We Are Not Alone"

Oct 5-7, 2018
Ontario, CA


SA International Website:
read/purchase literature

Contact Us:
858-495-2446
sasandiego@yahoo.com

Address:
PO Box 83666
San Diego, CA 92138-3666

Sponsored by SA San Diego Intergroup


Sexaholics Anonymous - Statement of Principle

We have a solution. We don't claim it's for everybody, but for us, it works. If you identify with us and think you may share our problem, we'd like to share our solution with you (Sexaholics Anonymous, 2).

In defining sobriety, we do not speak for those outside Sexaholics Anonymous. We can only speak for ourselves. Thus, for the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse. In SA's sobriety definition, the term "spouse" refers to one’s partner in a marriage between a man and a woman. For the unmarried sexaholic, sexual sobriety means freedom from sex of any kind. And for all of us, single and married alike, sexual sobriety also includes progressive victory over lust (Sexaholics Anonymous 191-192).
Passed by the General Delegate Assembly February 2010

The only requirement for SA membership is a desire to stop lusting and become sexually sober according to the SA sobriety definition.

Any two or more sexaholics gathered together for SA sobriety according to the SA sobriety definition may call themselves an SA group.

Meetings that do not adhere to and follow Sexaholics Anonymous' sobriety statement as set forth in the foregoing Statement of Principle adopted by the General Delegate Assembly in 2010 are not SA meetings and shall not call themselves SA meetings.
Addendum to the Statement of Principle passed by the General Delegate Assembly on July 2016.

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San Diego Area SA Meetings

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop lusting and become sexually sober.

This program is for men and women 18 years and older. Please be prepared to provide proof of age (ID).

Newcomers must attend an orientation before attending a regular meeting. While this orientation may have been done at a different SA meeting location, some individual meetings may insist on doing their own orientation for people new to that meeting.

The Rosecrans facility has security video surveillance in corridors and entrances.
Visitors must sign in at the main desk. These meetings are marked with an asterisk (*).

Meeting Attire Guidelines

We want to make our meeting a comfortable and secure place for all sexaholics. For that reason, we try to be careful that our dress doesn't act as a trigger to others. Please be considerate of other SA members in choice of attire. If you are not certain what is appropriate, see a regular group member after the meeting.

Meetings are for men and women unless otherwise stated.

Morning Meetings

Monday (Lakeside)

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church
13208 Lakeshore Dr
Lakeside, CA 92040
Classroom 7

Phone contact: (619) 895-0383
Map

Orientation: 6:00 am
Meeting: 6:00 to 7:00 am

From Interstate 8 heading east:

    • I-8 east to Hwy 67 north.
    • Turn right at light on Mapleview St.
    • Turn right on Pino Dr.
    • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
    • Turn left into last church property driveway.
    • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
    • Park anywhere.

    From I-15 heading south toward San Diego:

    • Take exit #22/Camino del Norte.
    • Turn left on Camino del Norte.
    • Continue on Twin Peaks Rd.
    • Turn right on Espola Rd (CR-S5).
    • Turn left on Poway Rd (CR-S4).
    • Turn right on CA-67.
    • Turn left on Mapleview St.
    • Turn right on Pino Dr.
    • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
    • Turn left into last church property driveway.
    • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
    • Park anywhere.

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Monday through Sunday (San Diego)

Serenity Shop
4740 Clairemont Mesa Blvd
San Diego, CA 92117

Orientation: 7:00 am
Meeting Mon-Tue-Wed-Thu-Fri: 7:00 to 8:00 am
Meeting Saturday: 7:00 to 8:30 am
Meeting Sunday: 7:00 to 8:00 am
Map

From I-805:


    • Exit Clairemont Mesa Blvd and go west.
    • Go to 4th light (Diane Shopping Center).
    • Enter from rear of Serenity Shop.

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Monday, Wednesday, Friday (Vista)

Coco's Bakery
605 W Vista Way
Vista, CA 92083

Map

Orientation: 7:00 am
Meeting: 7:00 to 8:00 am
(ask for Unity Meeting)

From Hwy 78 heading west toward Oceanside:

  • Exit Vista Village Dr.
  • Turn right on Vista Village Dr.
  • Turn left on W Vista Way.
  • Coco's is on the right.

From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

  • Exit Melrose Dr.
  • Turn left on S Melrose Dr.
  • Take first left onto W Vista Way.
  • Coco's is on the right.
Saturday (Escondido)

Church of the Resurrection
1445 Conway Dr
Escondido, CA 92027
Room 1
Map

Orientation: 7:00 am
Sharing Meeting: 7:00 to 8:15 am

From I-15:


    • Exit El Norte Parkway and go east.
    • Turn left on Conway Dr.
    • Church is on left.

From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

    • Turn left onto N. Broadway.
    • Turn right on East El Norte Parkway.
    • Turn left on Conway Dr.

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Saturday (San Diego)

Flood Church
3878 Ruffin Rd
San Diego, CA 92123
Map

Orientation: 8:00 am
Meeting: 8:00 to 9:30 am

From I-8 heading west:

    • I-8 west to I-15 north.
    • Exit Aero Dr.
    • Turn left on Aero Dr.
    • Turn right on Ruffin Rd.
    • 3878 Ruffin Rd is on left.
    • Entrance to meeting is on N side of church office bldg & is marked.

    From I-8 heading east:

    • I-8 E toward El Centro.
    • Exit I-15 N / Fairmount Ave (toward Mission Gorge Rd).
    • Merge onto I-15 N.
    • Exit Aero Dr.
    • Turn left on Aero Dr.
    • Turn right on Ruffin Rd.
    • 3878 Ruffin Rd is on left.
    • Entrance to meeting is on N side of church office bldg & is marked.

From I-5 heading south:

  • I-5 south to I-805 south.
  • Merge onto CA-52 east via Exit 23.
  • Exit Kearny Villa Rd / I-15.
  • Keep right to take Kearny Villa Rd ramp.
  • Keep right at fork in ramp.
  • Merge onto Kearny Villa Rd.
  • Stay straight to go onto Ruffin Rd.
  • 3878 Ruffin Rd is on the right.
  • Entrance to meeting is on N side of church office bldg & is marked.

From I-15 heading south:

  • I-15 south
  • Exit Aero Dr.
  • Turn right on Aero Dr.
  • Turn right on Ruffin Rd.
  • 3878 Ruffin Rd is on left.
  • Entrance to meeting is on N side of church office bldg & is marked.

Sunday (Vista)

1745 E. Vista Way
Vista, CA 92084
Suite 3-6

Orientation: 7:00 am
Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 am

Map

From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido, or west toward Oceanside:

  • Take Civic Center Dr exit.
  • Turn right onto Civic Center Dr.
  • Turn right onto E Vista Way.
  • 1745 E Vista Way is on the right, just past Arcadia Ave.
    (If you reach W Taylor St you've gone a little too far
    .)


    Evening Meetings


    Monday (Chula Vista, men's meeting)

    Canyon Community Church
    610 Paseo del Rey
    Chula Vista, CA 91910

    Meeting in conference room on west side of church bldg.

    Map

    Orientation: 7:00 pm
    Step-Study Meeting: 7:00 to 8:00 pm

    From Interstate 5 heading south:

    • Merge onto I-805 S.
    • Take Telegraph Canyon Rd/L St exit.
    • Keep left to take the Telegraph Canyon Rd E ramp.
    • Turn right onto Telegraph Canyon Rd.
    • Turn left onto Paseo del Rey.
    • Take the 1st right onto Del Rey Pl.

    Monday (San Diego)

    Denny's Mission Valley
    1065 Camino Del Rio South
    San Diego, CA 92108

    (Members encouraged to arrive before 7 if plan on ordering dinner.)

    Orientation: 6:45 pm
    Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 p
    m

    Map

    From Interstate 8 heading west:

    • Exit 5 toward Mission Center Rd/Auto Circle/The Art Institute/UCSD Extension.
    • Turn left onto Camino del Rio N.
    • Turn left onto Auto Cir.
    • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
    • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

    From Interstate 15 heading south:

    • Merge onto CA-163 S.
    • Take the I-8 E exit 3A, toward El Centro.
    • Keep right to take the Auto Circle ramp toward Mission Center Rd.
    • Keep right to take the ramp toward Camino del Rio S.
    • Turn right onto Auto Cir.
    • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
    • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

    From Interstate 5 heading south:

    • Keep left to take I-805 S.
    • Merge onto CA-163 S.
    • Take the I-8 E exit 3A, toward El Centro.
    • Keep right to take the Auto Circle ramp toward Mission Center Rd.
    • Keep right to take the ramp toward Camino del Rio S.
    • Turn right onto Auto Cir.
    • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
    • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

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    Monday (San Diego)

    Mira Mesa Alano Club
    6727 Flanders Dr
    San Diego, CA 92121

    Meeting is in small room off the AA meeting room. Enter the AA meeting room to get to the SA meeting room.

    Map

    Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm
    No orientation

    From Interstate 15 heading north or south:

    • Take exit 16 to Mira Mesa Blvd.
    • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
    • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

    From Interstate 805 heading north or south:

    • Take exit 27A to Mira Mesa Blvd.
    • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
    • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

    From Interstate 5 heading south:

    • Keep left at the fork to continue on I-805 S.
    • Follow signs for I-805 S.
    • Take exit 27A to Mira Mesa Blvd.
    • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
    • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

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    Tuesday (Escondido)

    Church of the Resurrection
    1445 Conway Dr
    Escondido, CA 92027
    Room 6


    Map

    Orientation: 6:00 pm
    Check-in, reading, sharing meeting: 6:00 to 7:00 pm


    From I-15 heading north toward Escondido:

        Exit El Norte Parkway and go east.
        • Turn left on Conway Dr.
        • Church is on left.

        From I-15 heading south toward Escondido:

        • Exit N Centre City Pkwy
        • Turn left on El Norte Parkway and go east.
        • Turn left on Conway Dr.
        • Church is on left.

        From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

        • Turn left onto N. Broadway.
        • Turn right on East El Norte Parkway.
        • Turn left on Conway Dr.

      Tuesday (San Diego)

      San Diego County Health Services Complex*
      3851 Rosecrans St
      San Diego, CA 92110

      Map

      Orientation: 6:30 pm
      Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm

      From Interstate 8 heading west:

      • Exit Taylor Street and go over bridge.
      • Turn right at stop sign on Taylor.
      • Taylor becomes Rosecrans.
      • Turn left into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
      • Mixed meeting (men & women) is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
      • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

      From Interstate 5 heading north:

      • Exit Pacific Highway and continue north.
      • Turn left on Rosecrans.
      • Turn left into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
      • Mixed meeting (men & women) is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
      • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

      From Interstate 5 heading south:

      • Exit Rosecrans and get into left lane as soon as possible.
      • Turn left on Kurtz.
        (If you miss Kurtz, go to Midway and make U-turn. Veer right onto Rosecrans.)
      • Turn left on Rosecrans.
      • Turn right into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
      • Mixed meeting (men & women) is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
      • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

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      Thursday (San Diego)

      Mira Mesa Alano Club
      6727 Flanders Dr
      San Diego, CA 92121
      Suite 108

      Map

      Orientation: 7:30 pm
      Meeting: 7:30 to 8:30 pm

      From Interstate 15 heading north or south:

      • Take exit 16 to Mira Mesa Blvd.
      • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
      • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

      From Interstate 805 heading north or south:

      • Take exit 27A to Mira Mesa Blvd.
      • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
      • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

      From Interstate 5 heading south:

      • Keep left at the fork to continue on I-805 S.
      • Follow signs for I-805 S.
      • Take exit 27A to Mira Mesa Blvd.
      • Follow Mira Mesa Blvd to Flanders Dr.
      • Alano Club is at 6727 Flanders Dr.

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      Friday (San Diego)

        Live & Let Live Alano Club
        1730 Monroe Ave
        San Diego, CA 92116

        Orientation: 6:35 pm (ask person behind bar in coffee shop for SA)
        Meeting: 6:45 to 7:45 pm
        Map

        From Interstate 8 heading west:

        • Take Qualcomm Way exit toward Texas St .
        • Take the Qualcomm Way ramp.
        • Turn left onto Qualcomm Way.
        • Stay straight to go onto Texas St.
        • Turn right onto Monroe Ave.
        • Meeting is in Live & Let Live Alano Club.
        • Walk straight through the building.
        • Meeting is in last room on right.

        From Interstate 8 heading east:

        • Merge onto Hwy 163 S toward downtown.
        • Take exit 2A toward Washington St. East/Business Rte 8.
        • Turn right onto 9th Ave..
        • Turn right onto Washington St.
        • Turn slight left onto Normal St.
        • Turn slight right.
        • Turn left onto Park Blvd.
        • Turn left onto Monroe Ave.
        • Meeting is in Live & Let Live Alano Club.
        • Walk straight through the building.
        • Meeting is in last room on right.


    San Diego Intergroup
    Monthly Business Meeting

        The San Diego Intergroup is a service group of SA members dedicated to supporting and strengthening all SA groups in San Diego County and SA as a whole. It provides a forum for communication among the individual SA groups, organizes outreach activities, hosts an annual one-day conference, maintains a phone hotline and website, and performs regional and national service. It meets the third Tuesday of each month.

        This is a business meeting. This is not a sharing meeting and not an orientation for newcomers. All SA members are welcome to attend and participate.

        Meetings are 3rd Tuesday of each month
        5:45-6:45 pm

        San Diego County Health Services Complex*
        3851 Rosecrans St
        San Diego, CA 92110
        San Diego Room

        A light dinner will be served at 5:25.

        Click here for directions.

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    SA Step Studies

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    SA/S-Anon International Conventions

    "Gateway to a New Freedom"

    July 13-15, 2018

    Hilton St. Louis Airport Hotel
    10330 Natural Bridge Rd
    St. Louis, MO 63134

    For website and more info, click here.
    Email.


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    28th Annual SoCal SA / S-Anon / S-Ateen
    Unity Conference

    "We Are Not Alone"

    Oct 5-7, 2018

    Ontario Airport Hotel
    700 N. Haven Ave
    Ontario, CA 91764



    Download flyer.



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    Northern California Unity Men’s Retreat

    Theme: "TBD"

    Nov 2-4, 2018

    Mt. Cross Lutheran Camp
    7795 Highway 9
    Ben Lomond, CA 95005

     

    Visit website.


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    S-Anon & S-Ateen San Diego


    Hope & help for family & friends of sexaholics:

    S-Anon is a program of recovery for those who have been affected by someone else's sexual behavior. S-Anon is based on the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous. The primary purpose of S-Anon is to recover from the effects of another person's sexaholism, and to help families and friends of sexaholics.

    For the Teenager:

    S-Ateen is a Twelve Step program for teenagers who have been affected by the sexual behavior of a relative or friend. The meetings follow S-Anon's Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. S-Ateen meetings are conducted separately from those of S-Anon, and are guided by adult S-Anon sponsors.

    For more information, click here.

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