Sexaholics Anonymous San Diego

Site last updated 10/13/14.


Notices

Sun morning Carlsbad meeting
location has changed:
call for address.


Tues night Escondido
meeting note:
if room 4 empty or being used,
check rooms adjacent/nearby.


Meeting Attire Guidelines


For SA mtgs in Temecula, click here.


Women's Tues Night Meeting:
First Tues of every month
in teleconference/phone
or electronic format.

For info
please contact:
samadhiresearch@yahoo.com

Regional Information & SA Meetings:

San Diego Area
Fresno Area
Inland Empire/Coachella Valley
Sacramento Area

San Francisco Area

Southern California Area

Tijuana, Mexico



SA Service Manual
This most recent draft is currently under revision & incomplete. Final version to be posted as soon as available.

San Diego Intergroup
monthly business meeting


San Diego Area Meeting
Quick Reference"


SA Phone Meetings

Events

14th Annual Nothern California
Fall SA Men's Retreat

"The Promises"

Nov 7-9, 2014
Ben Lomond, CA


SA/S-Anon International Convention

"Awakening the Spirit"

Jan 23-25, 2015
Portland, OR


New: Flyer posted !
Men's Retreat for SA Men
Find God XXI

"Standing at the Turning Point"

May 15-17, 2015
Big Bear, CA


"Women in SA" (WISA)

Providing resources for women
to connect to the fellowship
of Sexaholics Anonymous.


Wanted:

Members who meditate and
write about it.
A call for submissions for
publication in SA's
Daily Meditation Book.


Bylaws of SA San Diego Intergroup


(Final Revision Oct 15, 2013)


Regional-International Business

SA Service Manual

SA International Website:
read/purchase literature

Contact Us:
858-495-2446
sasandiego@yahoo.com

Address:
PO Box 83666
San Diego, CA 92138-3666


Sponsored by SA San Diego Intergroup

San Diego Area SA Meetings

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop lusting and become sexually sober.

This program is for men and women 18 years and older. Please be prepared to provide proof of age (ID).

Newcomers must attend an orientation before attending a regular meeting. While this orientation may have been done at a different SA meeting location, some individual meetings may insist on doing their own orientation for people new to that meeting.

The Rosecrans facility has security video surveillance in corridors and entrances.
Visitors must sign in at the main desk. These meetings are marked with an asterisk (*).

Meeting Attire Guidelines:

We want to make our meeting a comfortable and secure place for all sexaholics. For that reason, we try to be careful that our dress doesn't act as a trigger to others. Please be considerate of other SA members in choice of attire. If you are not certain what is appropriate, see a regular group member after the meeting.


Morning Meetings

    Monday, Wednesday, Friday (Vista, coed meeting)

    Coco's Bakery Restaurant
    605 W Vista Way‎
    Vista, CA 92083

    Map

    Orientation: 7:00 am
    Meeting: 7:00 to 8:00 am
    (ask for Unity Meeting)

    From Hwy 78 heading west toward Oceanside:

    • Exit Vista Village Dr.
    • Turn right on Vista Village Dr.
    • Turn left on W Vista Way.
    • Coco's is on the right.

    From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

    • Exit Melrose Dr.
    • Turn left on S Melrose Dr.
    • Take first left onto W Vista Way.
    • Coco's is on the right.

    Monday, Thursday (Lakeside, coed meeting)

    Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church
    13208 Lakeshore Dr
    Lakeside, CA 92040
    Classroom 7

    Phone contact: (619) 895-0383
    Map

    Orientation: 6:30 am
    Meeting: 6:30 to 7:30 am

    From Interstate 8 heading east:

      • I-8 east to Hwy 67 north.
      • Turn right at light on Mapleview St.
      • Turn right on Pino Dr.
      • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
      • Turn left into last church property driveway.
      • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
      • Park anywhere.

      From I-15 heading south toward San Diego:

      • Take exit #22/Camino del Norte.
      • Turn left on Camino del Norte.
      • Continue on Twin Peaks Rd.
      • Turn right on Espola Rd (CR-S5).
      • Turn left on Poway Rd (CR-S4).
      • Turn right on CA-67.
      • Turn left on Mapleview St.
      • Turn right on Pino Dr.
      • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
      • Turn left into last church property driveway.
      • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
      • Park anywhere.

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Monday through Sunday (San Diego, coed meeting)

Serenity Shop
4740 Clairemont Mesa Blvd
San Diego, CA 92117

Orientation: 7:00 am
Meeting Mon-Tue-Wed-Thu-Fri: 7:00 to 8:00 am
Meeting Saturday: 7:00 to 8:30 am
Meeting Sunday: 7:00 to 8:00 am
Map

From Interstate 805:


      • Exit Clairemont Mesa Blvd and go west.
      • Go to 4th light (Diane Shopping Center).
      • Enter from rear of Serenity Shop.

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Saturday (Escondido, coed meeting)

Church of the Resurrection
1445 Conway Dr
Escondido, CA 92027
Room 8
Map

Orientation: 7:00 am
Sharing Meeting: 7:00 to 8:15 am

From I-15:


      • Exit El Norte Parkway and go east.
      • Turn left on Conway Dr.
      • Church is on left.

From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

      • Turn left onto N. Broadway.
      • Turn right on East El Norte Parkway.
      • Turn left on Conway Dr.

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Sunday (Carlsbad, coed meeting)

Note: Carlsbad meeting location has changed.

Call for address
& directions: (760) 277-4231.

Orientation: 7:00 am
Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 am



      Evening Meetings

Monday (San Diego, coed meeting)

Denny's Mission Valley
1065 Camino Del Rio South
San Diego, CA 92108

(Members encouraged to arrive before 7 if plan on ordering dinner.)

Orientation: 6:45 pm
Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 p
m

Map

From Interstate 8 heading west:

  • Exit 5 toward Mission Center Rd/Auto Circle/The Art Institute/UCSD Extension.
  • Turn left onto Camino del Rio N.
  • Turn left onto Auto Cir.
  • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
  • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

From Interstate 15 heading south:

  • Merge onto CA-163 S.
  • Take the I-8 E exit 3A, toward El Centro.
  • Keep right to take the Auto Circle ramp toward Mission Center Rd.
  • Keep right to take the ramp toward Camino del Rio S.
  • Turn right onto Auto Cir.
  • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
  • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

From Interstate 5 heading south:

  • Keep left to take I-805 S.
  • Merge onto CA-163 S.
  • Take the I-8 E exit 3A, toward El Centro.
  • Keep right to take the Auto Circle ramp toward Mission Center Rd.
  • Keep right to take the ramp toward Camino del Rio S.
  • Turn right onto Auto Cir.
  • Turn sharp left onto Camino del Rio S.
  • 1065 Camino Del Rio South is on the right.

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Monday (San Diego, coed meeting)

Mira Mesa Alano Club
9535 Kearny Villa Rd
San Diego, CA 92126
Suite 105

Meeting in "Dr Bob Room" (right side of foyer when entering club).

Map

Orientation: 7:00 pm
Participation/Book Study Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm

From Interstate 15 heading north:

  • Exit Pomerado Rd/Miramar Rd.
  • Turn west onto Pomerado Rd.
  • Pomerado Rd becomes Miramar Rd.
  • Turn right onto Kearny Villa Rd.

    Note:
    Kearny Villa Rd is just past Kearny Mesa Rd.
    If you reach Black Mountain Rd, you've gone 0.2 miles too far.
    Meeting is .1 miles past Tierra Grande St.
    If you reach Candida St, you've gone a little too far.


Monday (Temecula, coed meeting)

28999 Old Town Front St
Temecula, CA 92590
Suite 105

Map

Orientation: 5:15 pm
Big Book Study/Sharing Meeting: 5:30 to 6:45 pm

From Interstate 15 heading north:

  • Take CA-79 S/Temecula Parkway exit, EXIT 58, toward Indio.
  • Keep left at the fork to go on Temecula Pky.
  • Turn right onto Old Town Front St.

    Note:
    If you reach 1st Street you've gone about 0.1 miles too far.

From Interstate 15 heading south:

  • Take the CA-79 S exit, EXIT 58, toward Temecula Pkwy.
  • Turn right onto Temecula Pky.
  • Take the 1st right onto Old Town Front St.

    Note:
    If you reach 1st Street you've gone about 0.1 miles too far.


Monday (Lakeside, coed meeting)

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church
13208 Lakeshore Dr
Lakeside, CA 92040
Classroom 7
Phone contact: (619) 895-0383
Map

Orientation: 7:00 pm
Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm

From Interstate 8 heading east:

  • I-8 east to Hwy 67 north.
  • Turn right at light on Mapleview St.
  • Turn right on Pino Dr.
  • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
  • Turn left into last church property driveway.
  • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
  • Park anywhere

From I-15 heading south toward San Diego:

  • Take exit #22/Camino del Norte.
  • Turn left on Camino del Norte.
  • Continue on Twin Peaks Rd.
  • Turn right on Espola Rd (CR-S5).
  • Turn left on Poway Rd (CR-S4).
  • Turn right on CA-67.
  • Turn left on Mapleview St.
  • Turn right on Pino Dr.
  • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
  • Turn left into last church property driveway.
  • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
  • Park anywhere.

Tuesday (San Diego)

    San Diego County Health Services Complex*
    3851 Rosecrans St
    San Diego, CA 92110

    Coed meeting:

    Orientation: 6:30 pm (in hall outside San Diego Room)
    Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm
    Location: San Diego Room

    Women's meeting:

    First Tues of every month
    in teleconference/phone or electronic format.
    For further information please contact: samadhiresearch@yahoo.com

    Map

From Interstate 8 heading west:

  • Exit Taylor Street and go over bridge.
  • Turn right at stop sign on Taylor.
  • Taylor becomes Rosecrans.
  • Turn left into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
  • Coed meeting is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
  • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

From Interstate 5 heading north:

  • Exit Pacific Highway and continue north.
  • Turn left on Rosecrans.
  • Turn left into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
  • Coed meeting is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
  • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

From Interstate 5 heading south:

  • Exit Rosecrans and get into left lane as soon as possible.
  • Turn left on Kurtz.
    (If you miss Kurtz, go to Midway and make U-turn. Veer right onto Rosecrans.)
  • Turn left on Rosecrans.
  • Turn right into S.D. Health Services Complex driveway--building is straight ahead.
  • Coed meeting is in San Diego Room (to right of sign-in desk).
  • Women's meeting is in Harbor Room (across from sign-in desk).

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Tuesday (Escondido, coed meeting)

Church of the Resurrection
1445 Conway Dr
Escondido, CA 92027
Room 4
(Note: If Room 4 empty or being used, check rooms adjacent/nearby.)

Map

Orientation: 6:00 pm
Check-in, reading, sharing meeting: 6:00 to 7:00 pm


From I-15 heading north toward Escondido:

      Exit El Norte Parkway and go east.
      • Turn left on Conway Dr.
      • Church is on left.

      From I-15 heading south toward Escondido:

      • Exit N Centre City Pkwy
      • Turn left on El Norte Parkway and go east.
      • Turn left on Conway Dr.
      • Church is on left.

      From Hwy 78 heading east toward Escondido:

      • Turn left onto N. Broadway.
      • Turn right on East El Norte Parkway.
      • Turn left on Conway Dr.

    Wednesday (Lakeside, coed meeting)

      Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church
      13208 Lakeshore Dr
      Lakeside, CA 92040
      Classroom 7
      Phone contact: (619) 895-0383
      Map

      Orientation: 7:00 pm
      Meeting: 7:00 to 8:30 pm

      From Interstate 8 heading east:

      • I-8 east to Hwy 67 north.
      • Turn right at light on Mapleview St.
      • Turn right on Pino Dr.
      • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
      • Turn left into last church property driveway.
      • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
      • Park anywhere.

      From I-15 heading south toward San Diego:

      • Take exit #22/Camino del Norte.
      • Turn left on Camino del Norte.
      • Continue on Twin Peaks Rd.
      • Turn right on Espola Rd (CR-S5).
      • Turn left on Poway Rd (CR-S4).
      • Turn right on CA-67.
      • Turn left on Mapleview St.
      • Turn right on Pino Dr.
      • Turn left on Lakeshore Dr.
      • Turn left into last church property driveway.
      • Continue driving straight ahead thru parking lot gate, follow arrow around back of auditorium, then straight to Room 7.
      • Park anywhere.

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      Live & Let Live Alano Club
      1730 Monroe Ave
      San Diego, CA 92116

      Orientation: 6:45 pm
      Meeting: 6:45 to 7:45 pm
      Map

      From Interstate 8 heading west:

      • Take Qualcomm Way exit toward Texas St .
      • Take the Qualcomm Way ramp.
      • Turn left onto Qualcomm Way.
      • Stay straight to go onto Texas St.
      • Turn right onto Monroe Ave.
      • Meeting is in Live & Let Live Alano Club.
      • Walk straight through the building.
      • Meeting is in last room on right.

      From Interstate 8 heading east:

      • Merge onto Hwy 163 S toward downtown.
      • Take exit 2A toward Washington St. East/Business Rte 8.
      • Turn right onto 9th Ave..
      • Turn right onto Washington St.
      • Turn slight left onto Normal St.
      • Turn slight right.
      • Turn left onto Park Blvd.
      • Turn left onto Monroe Ave.
      • Meeting is in Live & Let Live Alano Club.
      • Walk straight through the building.
      • Meeting is in last room on right.

Tijuana, B.C., Mexico
Meeting

      Saturday 6:00pm (coed meeting)
      AA 2000
      No. 18 Avenida Hipodromo Fraccionamiento Hipodromo
      Atras del Hipodromo antes de llegar a la taqueria Hipodromo.

      Google Maps

      Street View

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San Diego Intergroup
Monthly Business Meeting

      The San Diego Intergroup is a service group of SA members dedicated to supporting and strengthening all SA groups in San Diego County and SA as a whole. It provides a forum for communication among the individual SA groups, organizes outreach activities, hosts an annual one-day conference, maintains a phone hotline and website, and performs regional and national service. It meets the third Tuesday of each month.

      This is a business meeting. This is not a sharing meeting and not an orientation for newcomers. All SA members are welcome to attend and participate.

      Meetings are 3rd Tuesday of each month
      5:45-6:45 pm

      San Diego County Health Services Complex*
      3851 Rosecrans St
      San Diego, CA 92110
      San Diego Room

      A light dinner will be served at 5:25.

      Click here for directions.

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"Women in SA (WISA)"

Providing resources for women to connect to the fellowship of Sexaholics Anonymous.

Women-only SA phone meetings
International SA sisters list
Mixed phone meetings
Internet meetings
SA conventions
Buy SA literature


Visit website.

Download flyer.

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"SA Daily Meditation Book"

SA members are invited to submit manuscript (one page) describing their experience, strength and hope in dealing with life's issues--anger, depression, fear, easy does it, ego, powerlessness, principles vs. personalities, the promises, amends, selfishness, self-pity, honesty, open-mindedness, willingness, tolerance, live and let live, service, or whatever else challenges or inspires you.

By viewing life's issues in the context of each contributor's program and by reflecting how the program has helped recovery, the book will aid members in their study and meditation on the Twelve Step program of SA. Readers will gain greater insight into what we mean when we say we have found a common solution.

Those among us familiar with meditation books published by other 12 step programs (e.g., AA's As Bill Sees It and Al-Anon's Courage to Change) can attest to the value of daily spiritual readings. Now, with your help, SA can offer similar strength, refuge and serenity by publishing its daily meditation book.

Suggested Format:

1. Short quote
2. Three or so paragraphs about the topic.
3. One sentence prayer.

Example:

"My Source of Strength"

"In a very real sense he has laid hold of a source of strength which in one way or another, he had hitherto denied himself." (Twelve and Twelve, p. 110)

Lack of power, that has been my dilemma. Not only am I powerless over lust, I am powerless over everything else.

The things that have given me the most problems over the last few years of my recovery have been my income, the behavior of other people around me (especially my family members, people I interact with in my work, and other SA members), and my health. The struggle to keep things going, according to my plans, has ended each time with my defeat because I lacked the required power.

Where do I go from there? There is only one place—the surrender of Step One. I take the problem to the God of my understanding, who lovingly lifts it from my shoulders and reminds me that the challenge for me in this life is to have faith—faith in His love for me and in His plans for my joy, happiness, and abundance. And as I look back, I see that He has kept His promise. The money I've needed has always been there (and no more)! My work has prospered. I was convinced that my sister was headed for disaster, but it never happened. The SA meetings, the intergroup, and the fellowship at large are all doing great.

Prayer: Beloved Higher Power, please let me remember that I am but a small part of the universal plan and that You are the Master of it all. Help me to be willing today to surrender all my fears and doubts to You, and to have faith in Your absolute love for me and Your wonderful plans for my life.

Email your meditations to saico@sa.org, or send them to:
SAICO
P.O. Box 3565
Brentwood, TN 37024-3565

Flag your communication "submission for Daily Mediation Book" so that it can be routed to the Sponsoring Editor.


SA Step Studies

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"The Promises"

14th Annual Nothern California
Fall SA Men's Retreat

Nov 7-9, 2014

Mt. Cross Lutheran Camp
7955 State Route 9
Ben Lomond, CA 95005


For more info, registration and flyer, click here, then click Conferences.

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SA/S-Anon International Conference

"Awakening the Spirit"

Jan 23-25, 2015

Sheraton Portland Airport Hotel
8235 NE Airport Way
Portland, OR 97220


For more info, online registration, and hotel reservations, click here.

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Men's Retreat for SA Men Find God XXI

"Standing at the Turning Point"

May 15-17, 2015

Cedar Lake Conference Center
1100 Mill Creek Rd
Big Bear Lake, CA 92315


For more info, registration and flyer, click here.

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Regional/International Business:

 

 
SA Service Manual

This Service Manual is a work in progress intended for use by those serving on the intergroup, regional and national levels. Comments and suggestions are welcomed and can be directed to your southwest delegates through your local intergroup.


You may request a hard copy of the Service Manual from Central Office by calling
866-424-8777 toll free.
 

Download manual.


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